how to

ni la caranyer camne nak ikat langsir kita :)

kira ok la gak kan utk budak sebesar mia utk buat mende nih...syiling height lagi :)

all for love

have u guys been using the new (not so new la) putrajaya - kl highway? it spans from bulatan kampung pandan till putrajaya/cyberjaya...which links to the road leading to the ELITE highway to KLIA and F1 circuit...

well, i have been using it since moving to putrajaya (around end of last year) when it was still free and i would say that it is a breeze going to kl...no jam, no stress..

but it come with a price, literally...it will cost u RM4 when u use the highway from putrajaya to kl...rm2.50 at putrajaya and another rm1.50 payed in kl

the reason being im telling u guys about this is that i have been using this route since moving to putrajaya 4 times a day! dont believe it? u better believe it!

yem have been pregnant for 8months now and for the last 6months, i have been sending her to the office daily...not only sending her, but also to pick her up after work...tireless u say?

bukan apa, lrt tu dah la sesak, selalu rosak plak tu..tambah pulak orang memang tak kasik duduk punya la...and the worst thing is, (ni waktu awal2 pregnant dulu la) yem kena muntah dalam train ok, with plastic bag la of course, tapi that feeling of muntah kat depan org ramai tu...mana tahan!

so, as a mithali husband, i willingly send/pick her up to/from her office in jln maarof, bangsar! my trip will be from rumah, pegi bangsar, patah balik putrajaya hantar aliff pegi sekolah, then ke cyberjaya, then petang pegi balik bangsar and balik ke rumah...wow, memang sampai JB nih!

so kalau nak dikirakan:

Pagi: (RM2.50 + RM1.60) * 2
Petang: (RM2.50 + RM1.60) * 2
Total sehari: RM16.40
Total sebulan (20 hari): RM328
*RM1.60 tu highway NPE

well, this total does not include the minyak yg waja kitaorg minum tiap2 hari tuh..kalau minum sirap tu takper la gak... :P also, the maintenance la kan..servis every month or so..

tapi, all this doesnt compare with her susah payah carry our child dalam perut tu, plus keje carik makan lagi, plus susah payah nak bersalin nanti..

im willing to do anything..

i love my wife
....and family

bungaku layu

have u guys experience receiving sms from somebody that u memang tak expect langsung and the message kinda sound suspicious?

well, this happened to me earlier this month..the thing is, we went to this one kinda famous langsir place; ss*f cur*tain dekat pucho*ng..the place was just opened sometime end of last year if im not mistaken..

we actually planned to make a simple cur*tain and yem pun dah macam suka the material and we've decided to confirm the order la..and we have this one salesperson; which is kinda nice to both of us..giving some advice, ideas, all that sort of things la that we expect from a kedai langsir la kan..and kitaorg pun set date la utk the installation..but as usual, we had to pay the balance first la b4 dia install kan, and we obliged without any problem..

so, on the exact date, the installer pun dtg la pasang...and we're kinda satisfied la gak ngan hasilnyer tu :) tapi this is the nice part of the story..

then, on the 7th March, the incident happened...it was a friday afternoon, and i was in a masjid for sembahyang jumaat and all of the sudden, i noticed my hp vibrated.. "SMS?" i was thinking sapa la yg nak message org time2 nak solat nih...tapi i didnt looked at the SMS as i was very kusyuked ngan kuthbah, especially one day b4 the elect*ion :P

this is the exact message being sent to me:

"Hai, dah makan ke? ini no hp **** kalau free sms la ya." (nama tak didedahkan :P)

damn! this was the the sales"MAN" yg layan kitaorg hari tuh! memang la dia ala2 mak ny*ah tapi, ME? LANDEN? kurus keding nih, ada nafsu ke? huhuhuhu lainlah kalau tough, macho, handsome somemore! geli siot aku baca balik SMS nih! jadi layu cam bunga nih siot dibuatnyer!!!!!

geli geleman teman dibuatnyer...wekkkk!!!

note: berhati-hati bila menempah langsir :P

ahmad al-bab

rupa pintu tanpa tombol, notice kunci dia (on the right) still intact!

just wanted to share an incident that happen to us last few weeks...

it was a normal sunday, and since supermom just came back from ijn, we went to kak ura's house and we spent the whole day at her place...and after dinner we went back to our house..and we started our journey at around 830pm...so sampai rumah dah 9++

so as usual, on sunday night, kena la make sure sume ready, baju aliff dah strika, baju keje dah strika, check homework aliff dah siap lum...etc .etc..so sume tu buat kat dlm bilik master la kan..so dlm duk tengah susun2 baju tu..suruh aliff letak satu baju ni kat luar..

"daddy, pintu tak boleh bukak", aliff bersuara..

"pusing jer la tombol pintu tu!", daddy dengan nada agak bengang..

"tak boleh", sambil tangan dok try nak pulas tombol tu..

"hai, aliff nih!" daddy yg dah naik angin sambil berjalan ke arah pintu..

tapi bila ditry, memang tak leh nak bukak pintu tuh! bila pusing tombol tuh, benda yg sepatutnyer bergerak, tak bergerak... time tu dah pukul 1030pm! camne nih?

yem dah start panic, mia and aliff pun dah nampak risau..

"camne nak makan ni?", mia bersuara ngan nada yg lemah..

daddy pun dah nak naik risau dah ni...try panggil mak tapi mak kat bawah tak dengor..gulp camne nak buat nih?

got an idea utk call fixed line kat rumah...phone ada kat atas..so bila call, lama gak la baru mak angkat, siap ckp "mak, kami tersangkut kat bilik...tolong carik kunci kat kitchen cabinet..
mak pun terus carik kunci...and bila try, still tak boleh! pelik tul, bila dipulas bende tu tak bergerak!
tensen tul...

next action, suruh mak tolong ambik screwdriver, kot kot boleh nak korek2 sikit kat pintu tu..so bila dah dpt screwdriver tu, try jugak la nak korek2, tapi STILL tak leh nak gerak gak kunci tuh...siap kopak tombol tu sampai melopong pun kunci tu tak bergerak! mangkuk ayun tul!

kepala dah terpikir alternatif...
a) telepon bomba
b) telepon abang
c) penendang pintu kasik pecah
d) terjun dari balkoni and try cari pertolongan :P
e) tido :D

so we choose b), and abang mentioned that he will come straight away...so bila time menunggu tu dok try la jgk korek apa yg boleh...

then at 1130pm, abg sampai...dia bwk apa yg ada jer la, screwdriver, pisau, ngan tools dlm kete...and to our horror, fail gaks! memang mangkuk tul kunci nih!...

tapi abg ada mention utk try guna kredit card..ala2 mcm cerita kat tv tuh :P..so kitaorg pun ambik la credit card yg agak2 tak pakai tu mengorek dari celah2 pintu tuh...tapi STILL tal menjadik! tensen gila!

then at around 12am, (time nih alifff ngan mia dah tertidur) aku terperasan yg bila guna screwdriver utk tolak kunci tu, kunci tu cam bergerak..so what i did was to ask yem to hold the screwdriver and i tried to hold the kunci guna credit card tu, and when the credit card managed to hold the kunci from bergerak, i use the screwdriver utk tolak dia jauh dari lubang kunci tu...and alhamdulillah mende tu terbukak!

phew, memang seksa siot nak bukak natang nih!...sampai terbaring aku bila pintu tu dah terbukak! gonna have to look for another tombol bilik la plak!

tools yg telah digunakan utk percubaan membuka kunci tombol bilik


tiada haiwan yg terkorban dlm operation nih :P

beginning of the end

akhir jalan? (sekadar hiasan :P)

i, like many of other malaysians, did not even dream of taking Kedah, Perak, Selangor, Penang, but denying barisan 2/3 majority in dewan parlimen, are u joking?

but, this is what happens...anything is possible...anything can happen in life, football and even politics...jgn confident sangat, tuhan leh ambik sekelip mata jek.. ni dah tunjuk sikit..tak tau lagi ke?

i was a registered voter in taiping (where kay*veas losses out to DA*P) but this time around, we went back to jasin to let yem ngundi la...at least at her place ada PA*S candidate.. FYI, my father inlaw is a ahli kuat PA*S in melaka and he even build a markas sebelah rumah dia ;) i really like the feel of the electi*on fever...and one thing that i admire those opposit*ion part*y, they use their own money ok!

(note: he was a candidate during 2004's election, contesting for DU*N Rim tapi kalah la bai)

wajaku dibawah sinar bulan

banyaknyer bendera

pokok durian muda

markas disebelah rumah bapa mertuaku :)

but org melaka still tak dpt seru lagi rasanyer...tapi takper insyaallah next e*lection kot..

on another note, on the elect*ion day, we went for one of yem's pakcik punya kenduri somewhere in melaka

mia bermuka manja
aliff yg main tak hingat dunia, jarang nampak tanah merah kot :P

mia, aliff and their cousin

ijn photos

some photos taken the day b4 the operation...thanks for all the wishes :)


with all of her children (except kak long which was still on the way from selama)
landen's family

with the only bujang's nuar and yan

with kak ina's family

with nuar and insyallah future ehem ehem (lulus :P)

with ipin's family

with abg afen's family

with kak ura's family

ijn is my second home right now

lama siot tak menulis...memang tak sempat pun...and dah takder idea nak tulis

24 feb ari tuh supermom diadmitkan ke ijn for the bypass operation that i told u guys earlier..the operation was on the 28th and the reason why they asked supermom to admit 4days earlier is anyone's guess..tapi rasanyer nak bagi biasa ngan keadaan hospital.. mind u, supermom tak penah buat operation, even bersalin utk lapan org anak2 dia pun, sume via normal birth..so i think this major operation does make supermom nervous..

so, on the 28th feb, all of her 8 "superchildren" :P went to ijn early in the morning, as early as 6am since her operation will be starting at 8am that day...i tell u, it was a very emotional day for all of us as in the operation theather, anything can happen...kira cam bila masuk wad bedah tu, cuma supermom ngan allah jer la..yg lain memang lemah tak leh nak buat apa! we took turns to salam and mintak maaf, halal makan minum and take photos with supermom and the room was very quite except for a light sound of sobbing (everyone cried!) and alhamdulillah takder sapa yg meraung kuat2...anak abah la katakan

so when the clock turns 730am, the nurse asked supermom to baring kat katil yg diaorg nak tolak pi operation theather...and all of us followed her to the wad bedah..alhamdulillah supermom was tenang as always! so strong she is! but there was an incident where another man which is also on the way to the wad bedah with his family and supermom was in the same lift as the man...and bila keluar lift jek...kitaorg dengo org meraung kuat2 tuh...sampai terkejut gak la...and the nurse cepat2 tolak supermom's katil away dari kakak tu..rupa2nyer dia isteri lelaki yg sama lift ngan supermom..aduh memang sedih siot!

so kitaorg pun tolakla katil tu pi wad bedah and to our shock, siap ada queue tu nak masuk bilik bedah nih..one katil to the other...and in front of us is the man ive mentioned just now..his isteri skg dah calm down la sikit kot..and after a few minutes, they push the man inside...and now its supermom's turn!

so the nurse talked to supermom on what will be done, and shows her some form that supermom had signed earlier..after all those necessary things done, the nurse gave family members time to salam for the last time b4 entering the theather..so we took turns to salam supermom and again it was very emotional period for all of us..i think this is the most sedih period of my life apart from my father's loss..sob sob

tapi berkat doa sume org, now my mom is slowly recovering and she's now in a normal ward and it only took her less than 24hrs to be moved from the ICU to the normal ward! we're sooo glad sebab ada a few people yg still have not recovered (still in ICU)..

and today, dah 6days after the operation, supermom can walk on her own, dah ada selera makan and her face pun dah nampak sihat sikit dari the first few days after operation.. memang so glad she's recovering so well and insyaallah esok leh dicharge...but we will definitely need to make sure that she does not buat keje berat2 especially bab masak memasak and mengemas rumah..she needs some rest after all these years! :)